Tuesday, August 30, 2016

Preparing to Impress

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In 2013, I shared a series called "Preparing to Impress." Packed full of practical ideas, it has been such a popular series.  Since we have so many new readers to this blog, I decided to revisit it today.

Before we look at the ideas, I want to explain the meaning of the title.  For when you understand the title, you can understand the contents. 
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.  These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.  Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.   ~~ Deut 6:4-9
In these verses one word stands out to me.  Impress.  Webster defines it as "to leave an imprint or mark" and "to transfer, transmit."  I love the idea of impressing upon our children the commandments of God.  Our pastor shared the illustration of biting your hand and leaving teeth marks; leaving an impression. 
This series prepares you to leave an imprint on your child's heart.  The ideas will help you transfer to your child what God is teaching you as well as remove any obstacles that would cause this transfer to not impress correctly or deeply.  

But with 15 total posts, it can be daunting to find the information you desire.  Please use the links below to find the topics that will most help you make a deep impression!

Preparing Mommy:
Preparing Your Home:
If the word schedule makes you nervous, think of these as guides to help you organize your day. 

Preparing to Use ABCJesusLovesMe in Your Home
I pray that this info has helped you prepare your heart, home, and the ABCJLM curriculum to impress upon your children the commandments and love of God.  Let me know how it goes!

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Tuesday, August 23, 2016

A Precious Gift: Scripture Memory {Giveaway}

Last week on the ABC Jesus Loves Me Facebook Group, Allison shared Memory Verse printables that she created to help her family learn verses.  I loved what she posted and asked if she would explain more.  Here is what she shared:
What time I am afraid, I will trust in Thee.  Psalm 56:3
I just typed this verse from memory, the words flowing automatically, with no need to consciously recall any of them. This Scripture verse is, I believe, the first I ever memorized.

As a fearful child, my dad lovingly spoke these comforting, inspired words of David to me every night, tucking them into my heart as he tucked me into bed. Now, as a fearful adult, this is my “go-to” verse. As if on autopilot, I am reminded of this verse every time I feel anxious. My dad gave me a precious gift when he helped to impress this piece of God’s Word into my mind and onto my heart.

Through my growing up years, I memorized Scripture haphazardly for Sunday School, Vacation Bible School, and my school Bible class. But it was only as a college student that I became convinced that memorizing God’s Word in chunks was a vital part of my walk with the Lord. Chuck Swindoll says it best: “I know of no other single practice in the Christian life more rewarding, practically speaking, than memorizing Scripture. . . . No other single exercise pays greater spiritual dividends!”

My attempts and resolutions have ebbed and flowed, but since my college years, I have memorized a few chapters of the Psalms, the first few chapters of Proverbs, the entire books of Philippians and James, and other scattered passages. I am currently memorizing Psalm 27 to help fight my fear problem.

This is all to say that I am passionate about hiding God’s Word in my heart! 

Desiring God.org says that as we let the Word of Christ dwell in us richly (Colossians 3:16) the Holy Spirit uses the Word to:
  1. make us more like Christ
  2. to triumph over sin
  3. to comfort and counsel our hearts (and the hearts of others)
  4. to better communicate the Gospel with unbelievers
  5. to commune with our God
If we are persuaded of this, we can’t help but get excited about guiding our little children in memorizing Scripture. Especially in these early years, when most children have brains like “sponges,” we should intentionally pursue the lofty goal of filling their minds and hearts with as much of God’s Word as we possibly can.

So...how? The old adage is right (if somewhat cliché): if we fail to plan, we plan to fail. I fail often but this is what I am planning to make sure that I teach my kids the spiritual discipline of Scripture memorization.
•    Choose a portion of Scripture to memorize. My two oldest kids (4 and 2-and-a-half) are close enough in age that they learn the same portions together. Most often we will follow the verse provided in the ABC Jesus Loves Me Curriculum, but at times we choose a passage (or single verse) that we really want to address with our kids.

•    Write the current verse on the “My Verse” card. Stick it up somewhere visible more to remind you than the kids.

•    Depending on the needs of your child, teach him or her only portions at a time, adding gestures to make it “stick,” and accepting what your child can do. For example, my 2-and-a-half year old “recites” John 3:16 by saying “God – loved- the world – gave – only Son – believes – perish – everlasting life.” That’s all he can do right now and I’m cool with it.

•    Don’t stick too strictly to a timetable of memory completion. Try and go over the current verse(s) every day, but if it’s not going well...cut your losses and try again tomorrow. In the same way, if your little learner is really struggling day-after-day to commit a verse to memory, give it a break, choose something new, and try again in a few weeks. My kids pick up some verses in the blink of an eye, and some take f-o-r-e-v-e-r.

•    Explain to them what they are memorizing. Learning words and sentences without having an inkling of their meaning is not very beneficial. There is no need to provide an exposition on the verse, just explain the gist to your littles.

•    When your child is pretty confidently reciting the chosen verse or passage, write it on the My Verse Chart sheet and choose another! Once a week, review previously memorized Scriptures to ensure that these stay fresh in your little one’s mind.

If you are like me, our attention easily diverts to some of the secondary benefits of our kids memorizing their “verse of the week”: throwing “Scripture missiles” at them when they are less-than-godly, showing off for the grandparents, completing the week’s target verse, and patting ourselves on the backs for being great moms. But let us always remember to teach Scripture to our little people with this number one, ultimate, supreme motivation held high: that they would know God. 

Click to print the My Verse and My Verse Chart printable created by Allison. 

Allison was born in the United States, raised in South Africa, now raising her own in India. Speech Pathology and Audiology graduate turned graphic design addict. Wife to Tommie and mama to McKenna, Logan, and Tyler. Follower of Jesus.

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Tuesday, August 16, 2016

When a Door is Closed...

And like that the door is closed.  I am no longer the mom of littles. 

Yesterday I delivered all four of my children to elementary and middle schools to learn, grow, and love others for another school year.  They are big kids now and I don't like it.  My babies are growing up.  

Obviously I knew this day would come but I never dreamed it would feel like this.  It's a roller coaster of emotions because while many mothers dream about having a few minutes of quiet each day, when it becomes a reality, it is not what one would think it would be.  I love having my little chicks under my wings and they are flying the coop for longer periods of time.

I also dreamed it would look different.  When I stopped teaching 12 years ago, the plan was to take an extended sabbatical and then return to teaching in the public schools when our kiddos all entered school. I loved my years of teaching and looked forward to getting back in the classroom. 

But God had different plans.  And it has caused me to question, wonder, and feel a little grief.  

Don't get me wrong.  I love the ABCJLM family!  I am beyond humbled for the opportunity that God has given me on the internet.  The fact that He has taken this blog and ABCJLM ministry around the world is breath taking.  I never dreamed how God would use our story for His Kingdom. 

It's just not what I had planned.  

You too have had your planned interrupted? 

After my sister died, I clung to the verse Jeremiah 29:11 because I needed to know that God was sovereign in all the grief I was feeling.

My plans and dreams for the future were rocked and I had to learn to stand on the promise that God knows the plan He has for me.  He is giving me hope and a future.

Obviously this new season isn't anything like grieving over the loss of my sister.  Nothing like it.  But, I realize no matter how large the grief, I need to acknowledge the feelings I have about the closed door.  It's a grief of leaving behind the season of little children in our home.  It's the grief of not being able to return to teaching in the public schools...right now. 

Then in acknowledging these feelings I can find joy in the journey God has for me and the opportunities that this new season opens for me as a wife, mom, friend, writer, and speaker.  Finding joy is allowing me to see that while God may be closing the door right now, He has a new door ready for me to open if I choose to follow in obedience.  

I don't know what this new door will have in store but I can trust Him knowing that as long as I am willing, it will further His Kingdom.  Isn't that what I desire most?

Many of you are facing interrupted expectations right now.  It could be the grief that parenting isn't what you thought it would be.   It could be the disappointment in a failed friendship or job. Maybe the grief of having to leave all you know for a new place. 

I pray whatever it is that you can find peace and joy knowing that we serve a sovereign God who is crazy about us.   Even though He is God and could do it on His own, He invites us to participate in His work to further His Kingdom.  How I serve Him may look different than I expected but being in His will is the best place that I can be. 

It's time for me to open the new door before me.  How about you?

Enjoy these lyrics from one of my favorite songs by Michael W. Smith

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Tuesday, August 9, 2016

A Parent's Prayer for the School Year

It's mid-August and in a blink I am closing the door on being a mom of preschoolers and opening the door to life as a mom of a middle school pre-teen and three elementary-aged children.  So many emotions in that statement. 

As I begin this new stage of life, I know that I need God's wisdom and strength.  I need His guidance and direction. 

What better way to begin this school year than with prayer!  Will you please join me?

Dear Abba Father,

Thank you for forgiveness.  Thank you for salvation.  Thank you for the promise of eternal life.  

But I want more;  I need more.  

I don’t want to talk religion.  I want to ooze your characteristics because I have young eyes watching me.  My children are learning who You are by what I do.  And I desperately want to be able to say, as the apostle Paul did to his followers, “Imitate me.” 

I want to live so close to You – to be so intimately connected with You – that by imitating my life, my children will actually be imitating You.  My heart’s desire is to be You to my children.  I want to be the greatest influence in their lives, and I want to consistently shine to reflect You.  I know that You hold my children’s future and I am trusting You to show me how to be a mirror of You to them as they travel this road to adulthood. 

I know You have created me as the mom of these children but parenting is hard.  I look in the mirror and just see mistakes and missed opportunities.  I can’t do this on my own.  I need you to make this happen. 

I surrender everything I’ve been, everything I am, and everything I’ll become to You right now.  Lord, I not only give You my life, I give You my rights as well.  I give You my very self.  I’m asking You to live through me.  Use me to bring glory to Your name.  I want You to transform me into Your image.  I want my deepest desire to be to please You, to do Your will.

Even though my spirit is willing, my flesh is so weak.  Holy Spirit, please prick my heart when I bend toward my will instead of Yours.  Speak loud when I choose my way over Your way.

Thank you for making me complete in You, and for releasing the power of Your Spirit throughout every area of my life.  Thank You that the same power that raised Your son from the dead is the power that You are using to mold in me into a daughter who will bring You glory.   Thank You that You don’t give up on me. 

In Your holy, powerful, and loving name….

Welcome friends to a new school year!

Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Are the Current Events Causing Fear?

I am a news junkie.  Each day I read the archaic information piece made of ink and paper after watching the news on TV.  I feel as a Christian it is important to know what is happening around us in politics and society.  

But not lately.  I know what I will hear if I turn on the news and unglove the paper.   Hate.   Lies.  Corruption.   Selfishness.  Pride.  And it makes me sick.  

We are living in a times where the enemy is seeking and destroying.   I don't claim to predict the future but from what I have read, it is not going to get better on this earth.  As man turns from God, it will only spiral downward.  

Especially as a mom, I can become easily overwhelmed with all of this yuck.  I fear for my family's safety, our life as we know it, and for our country.  My gut reaction is to run and hide. Panic.  But I am reminded that I don't have to live in fear.  

Remember the story of Peter in Matthew 14?   A storm comes up and fears are high.  Trusting Jesus, Peter hops out of the boat and begins walking on water.  But as soon as Peter takes his eyes off Jesus, he notices the waves threatening to engulf him and he begins to sink into the swirling waters.  Peter was fine until he lost focus.  

How I can relate!   The yuck in the news is swirling around me threatening to uproot everything I know.  Instead of getting overwhelmed by the mess of this sin-filled world, it's time for me to take my eyes off the towering waves and place them on Jesus.   

No, it doesn't mean that the waves will calm.  But it does mean that my focus will be on the HOPE of Jesus instead of the distraction of the enemy.  

Will you join me?

Feeling hopeless?  I encourage you to daily find hope in the Word.  Read my free ebook, A Quiet Time, Worth the Time